How to deal with failure in Life?
It is very normal to get fail in your life. In fact, in 95% of scenarios failure has proven to be very effective and healthy. Getting failed in your life is ok, losing is ok, not achieving what you want is ok, not succeeding in an entrance exam is ok, getting rejected is ok, losing in business is ok, getting failed in 9-year-long scientific research is ok. failure in successfully launching a satellite is ok and many more
what's not ok is not giving your 100% in what you want to achieve. what's not ok is daydreaming and letting the universe work for you. What's not ok is not trying just for the fear of losing. What's not ok is not taking your work seriously. What's not ok is taking your goals for granted. What's not ok is losing your hopes after failure.
Understand comeback is most important after losing. Taking lessons from your past failure and not repeating the same mistake is important. After losing standing up again is important. Analyzing what went wrong is important.
Don't let the fear of failure overshadow your potential. Just because you failed doesn't mean you are not worth it or you are a loser. You are already far better than those who had never tried just from the fear of losing, you are already a winner than those who just daydream and didn't give their 100%.
You know during this process you had already achieved many things. You had learned: how to work consistently towards your goals, how to keep yourself motivated, how to deal with your inner fears of losing, how to have patience and perseverance, how to work day and night towards your goals, how to keep yourself away from distraction.
The journey of working towards your goals is more beautiful than actually achieving them because this journey is going to help you find "the inner you", making you a better person.
Ok, I know everyone is connected to materialistic things whether it's you or me. We all work only to get success in whatever we are doing and no one can deny the fact that we all have a hunger for success and if we do not achieve it we lose hope. And I will also agree that winning is important.
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Now there are 3 kinds of people and how to deal with failure?
- Who only wants but never works for it because the fear of losing is dominating his mind and didn't let him work. This kind of people shouldn't complain to the universe that why they are living a Medicare life, because they had chosen to live this way. You have to come out of your comfort zone to achieve something.
- "Success and comfort are two parallel lines which never meet."
- In this category, we are working towards our goals but are not willing to give our 100%. Here we are randomly working and not taking our work seriously. And in this case, the probability of achieving is meager and then depression occurs, because you are in between you are not fully committed to your goal and also not able to do other temporary pleasures[partying, chilling with friends, night outs, family functions, going on vacation]. We just get trapped in the vigorous cycle and it is the worst case.
- And in this, the probability of having self-doubt and depression is all around you. but understand there is no point in working on something in which you are not giving 110% efficiency. Where work with your full efficiency or else left it, do some other things this is not meant for you
- "One cannot cross a river by riding on 2 boats"
- You have to choose only one boat to cross the river otherwise you will be stuck in the middle of the river and after that, you cannot Cross the river nor can come to the initial point.
- Similarly, you have to choose whether you are ready to give more than 100% or you want to choose your temporary pleasures. Don't stick in the middle of it, it is the biggest mistake you are doing in life. life is precious don't waste it like this.
- To achieve you have to push your limits daily to succeed. challenge your potential daily. You have to work more than the previous day you have done.
- "Work is worship start worshipping it."
- In this category one is continuously working towards his goals, challenging his limits daily, leaving no stone unturned but then also faces failure. don't feel sad it's not your fault you are already perfect you are already a winner
- Results are not in our hands. We know that we had given more than our efficiency and in this kind of failure you won't feel rejected because you know you had given more than 100%. It isn't your fault.
- Now analyze your mistake, analyze, what went wrong, and start again and make sure you are not repeating past mistakes you did in your past.
- Don't worry if you again failed, and don't ever let the feeling overshadow you that you are worthless as you know how to hustle hard,
- Don't worry universe is seeing you, recognizing all your efforts and hard work. One day all the stars will meet together and you will achieve something you truly deserve. But don't ever stop yourself from workings towards your goal and settle for less. As we all know that
"Universe helps those who are working for themselves"
